10 Infamous Days

When something really big happens, people usually remember where they were and what they were doing on that day. Here’s a list of 10 big events, and what I was doing when I heard the news.

  1. President Kennedy’s assassination – I was in 6th grade and had walked home from school for lunch. I found Grandma and Grandpa Briggs sitting in stunned silence in front of the television, and they told me the news. When I walked back to school, I broke the news to the crossing guards, and later heard some kids saying our teacher, Mrs. Ryno, had been crying. A teacher crying! That was bigger news around the elementary school than the president’s assassination.
  2. Beatles debut on Ed Sullivan Show – I was 11 and was headed to youth group on that Sunday night. I saw the performance before leaving, but could not figure out why Janie and Pam Gregory were acting so crazy about them at church that evening. I guess I was just too young to really get it, but those teenage girls were over the moon. And speaking of the moon…
  3. Neil Armstrong walks on the moon – I was 17 and wanted to go out to a movie with my friend, Karen. Dad stopped me and told me I needed to watch the moon landing (it might have been a rerun of it). Honestly, I wasn’t very interested, and just wanted to go pick up my friend. I stood in the living room for a few minutes until Dad seemed satisfied and let me go. Looking back, of course I cannot remember what the allure of that movie was, nor can I even remember what we saw, but an American walked on the moon that day and I almost missed it!
  4. OJ Simpson trial – I had had a hysterectomy that year and was on medical leave from work for 8 weeks. Mom spent the first few weeks with me (nursing me back to health) and we watched almost every minute of that trial. It was compelling reality TV. By the time the jury reached a verdict I was back at work, and a black co-worker was the one to make the announcement right after lunch one day. She seemed gleeful, but Mom and I knew he was guilty and were stunned at the verdict.
  5. Princess Diana’s death – I was having dinner with two friends, Alice Swartz and Jayne Ewell, in Garcia’s Mexican Restaurant. The waitress told us, but at the time there was no confirmation of the princess’s death. I remember we prayed for her.
  6. Space Shuttle Challenger explosion – I was working at the American Cancer Society in downtown Phoenix. One of the secretaries ran into the reception area and said, “The shuttle just exploded!” I initially thought she was talking about a downtown shuttle bus, and I thought to myself, “I didn’t hear it.” Then it occurred to me what she was referring to. Someone brought out a TV and set it up in the lunchroom so we could watch the news.
  7. John Kennedy, Jr. plane crash – It was a Saturday and I didn’t have the TV on that morning. Carrie called mid-morning for something else, but mentioned the search for the plane, and I turned the TV on and watched the news reports the rest of the afternoon.
  8. September 11, 2001 – I was getting ready for work and had Fox News on my bedroom TV (as I always do in the morning). I heard the news and watched the first tower fall before I left for work. On my way to the Intel site, Daryl called me on my cell phone (I even remember I was at Eliot and the 101 when his call came in)  and he told me the second tower had fallen. I was, of course, listening to it on the radio. Intel set up a television in the cafeteria for the next two weeks so we could keep updated on the rescue and recovery.
  9. Arizona Diamondbacks win the World Series – Brian and Carrie were living with me and Lauren was a baby. Kevin Goerhing was at our house to watch game 7, and when Gonzo hit that bloop single to left center field, we all started jumping up and down and “whisper screaming” because Lauren was asleep in the next room and we didn’t want to wake her up.  What a riot!
  10. Anna Nicole Smith’s death – I know, not a top 10 event, but I specifically remember I was working at Marvell, and one of my co-worker’s said, loudly from her cube, “Anna Nicole Smith died.” Several people said, in unison, “Really!?” For some reason it stuck with me.

Two honorable mentions:

Cuban Missile Crisis – I remember walking from our 5th grade classroom to the cafeteria and Christine Ridenour said “Let’s head for Africa! We’ll swim!” I was amazed that she could think of such a joke. I thought she was really cool.

Oklahoma City bombing –  I’m not sure why this isn’t a vivid memory for me, but I do remember watching the news for the next several days after it happened. I know I was working at Intel, but can’t remember the details of my day that day. I have since visited the OKC Memorial twice.

Memories of historical events serve as milestones on our life journey, capturing a photo of the day in our mind’s eye. Some of them reaffirm who we are, and some of them change us forever.  What are some vivid memories you have of historical days?

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10 Fun or Interesting Websites

Here are 10 websites I check out every day or so. How about posting some you like?

  1. Mashable – all the latest and greatest news about the technology world (main emphasis on social media).
  2. Pioneer Woman – the personal website of a rancher’s wife living in rural Oklahoma. She writes humorously about life, photography, and best of all, country cooking.
  3. Six Year Med – the author has been blogging since she started med school, and is now a Resident in Pediatrics. Her posts are sometimes funny, sometimes sad, but always touching.
  4. Cake Wrecks – when professional cakes go horribly, hilariously wrong.
  5. Jim’s Pancakes – a father who makes art out of pancakes for his children.
  6. Catalog Living – all about the lives of the fictional people (Gary & Elaine) who live in home decorating catalogs.
  7. Micro Preemie Twins – Eden and Holland were born at 24 weeks; they are 6 years old now.
  8. TVLine – Michael Ausiello’s celebrity blog.
  9. Lily the Black Bear Den Cam – Lily gave birth to twin cubs on January 21, broadcast live on a webcam; she has a yearling in the den with her. The world keeps watch of their activities as she nurses and cares for all three young bears.
  10. Lauren’s Institute for Education – need I say more? Check it out if you haven’t visited lately. The website has really expanded.
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Nook/Kindle Dilemma

I got a Sony Reader for Christmas, but decided to exchange it for a reader that I could synchronize with my iPhone. I have been using the Kindle app for almost a year and thought that was what I wanted. However, when I did just a little research, I discovered the Kindle cannot download library books and that was a very important feature for me. The Barnes & Noble Nook does library books and purchased books, has a large selection of free books on Barnes & Noble’s website, and also has an sync-able app for the iPhone, so I decided to go with that. I made my exchange at Walmart on December 30.

After setting up my Nook account, downloading a few books from both the B&N website and the Phoenix Digital Library, and having the Nook in my hands for several hours, I began to have second thoughts about the product and kept thinking about that smaller, thinner, lighter-weight Kindle. The inability to access library books nagged at me less and less, and the more I held the Nook in my hand, the less satisfied I became. I decided to exchange it for a Kindle.

Today I cleared my account from the Nook, reset the factory settings, and took it back to Walmart. When I presented it at the customer service counter, the clerk told me e-readers may only be returned within 14 days of purchase. I am 10 days too late.

Now I want a Kindle, but cannot return my Nook. And now I know how Daryl felt when he got his MDX.  At least I know he finally became happy, so I probably will, too. I have found that your perspective usually changes when your options vanish.

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Princess Bride

This post is not about the 1987 Rob Reiner movie, but rather a very special little girl who got to play a unique role in the wedding of an angel.

Diana Poetter has been Lauren’s friend and therapist since before Lauren was diagnosed with Sanfilippo Syndrome. She has been a precious treasure to our family because of all the time, energy and love she has given Lauren during her journey with this disease. Diana “works” five days a week for Carrie, attending to Lauren’s therapies, daily exercises, meals, bathing, meds, etc. I wrote “works” in quotes because it is evident that her career is very much a labor of love.

Diana became engaged last year to a wonderfully sweet young man and they set their wedding date for New Year’s Day, 1-1-11. The very next thing Diana did was to ask Lauren to be in her wedding as her “Princess Bride”. Lauren would be walked down the aisle by her daddy, wearing a “wedding dress” just like Diana’s. We know Lauren will never have her own real wedding, and this was Diana’s gift to our family of allowing us to have the special moments that a mother has of dressing her daughter in a wedding gown, a father has of walking his daughter down the aisle, and all the family members have of watching that take place.

I forgot to take my camera to the church, so all I got were pictures taken with my iPhone. Some are blurry, but they actually are a perfect capture of how I saw Lauren that day… through the blur of tears. It was a beautiful wedding, two beautiful brides, and a beautiful day!

Carrie was the first bridesmaid down the aisle.

Here is Brian walking Lauren down the aisle.

Nathan was the guest book attendant.

Lauren with Diana and Jeremy.

Robin and the kids were in town and also attended the wedding. Here are Nathan, Steven and Megan.

Here are a few from the reception. I caught Mom with a mouthful of dinner. And Megan playing with Andrew. Carrie stopped by the cake table.

Unfortunately, I didn’t get any pictures of Robin or me. But please believe me, we were there!

Congratulations Diana and Jeremy. May God bless your marriage!

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Merry Christmas!

I posted my annual year in review, and made it a list of 10 this time. In the words of the Staples commercial, “That was easy!”

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Sweet Buddy

In August, a friend from church needed a home to place her little dog for about 8 months. Buddy is a 4 year old long haired dachshund, and just the sweetest thing you ever saw. Since I had recently had Hollie put down, I offered to take him.  He moved in on Labor Day weekend and quickly became the king of the house. Who could resist those darling eyes, that soft body snuggling up next to me, kisses galore, and his insistence that he should sleep in my bedroom to “protect” me all night? I couldn’t and quickly fell in love. I have told his owner several times that she was going to have a hard time getting him back from me. She always laughed and shook her head at me.

Last night, Dale and I were eating chocolate chips in the family room and stepped away to the computer room for a minute. When we came back, we didn’t notice anything for about a half hour, but then Buddy started vomiting and we found the empty chocolate chip bag on the floor. I had heard chocolate was dangerous for dogs and checked the internet to see what to do. I read that chocolate is an incredible stimulant in dogs that their heart and nervous system cannot tolerate. They recommended rushing him to the vet, so we did.

I won’t go into all the details, but just to say that Buddy did not survive. I reached my friend this morning and through sobs, I  told her what had happened. She was incredibly gracious, insisting she didn’t fault me as she knew how much I loved little Buddy.  I still feel horrible about it, on top of my great sadness over Buddy’s sudden departure.

Such a hard lesson, but I hope anyone who reads this will now understand the danger of chocolate in dogs and take every precaution to avoid what happened to us.

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