Back Yard

I recently had some landscaping done in my back yard. They removed one of my citrus trees, upgraded the sprinkler system, planted some trees, aerated the grass and spread it with topsoil. It looks much better, and the grass is slowly coming back in. One thing the landscaper would not do is rebuild the cedar fence atrium around the master bath window. The guy asked me if I could hire a “handy-man” to do that because it wasn’t really in the scope of what they usually did.

So I thought about who I might hire, and I thought of Mark. I have seen his work and he does a grrrr-eat job. He built an Arizona room on Heather and his house and it is very fine.

I called him up to see if he would take the job. He was very willing to help me out. We haggled a lot over price … he wanted to do it for free … I wouldn’t hear of it. We finally settled on a trade of services, and believe me — I got the far, far better end of the deal!

He built the whole thing this weekend. To really comprehend how much work it was, in addition to viewing the pictures, you need to know it was 100 degrees outside!

Before…

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After…

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Doesn’t it look fabulous? Mark, I can’t thank you enough.

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Planet Earth

On the Oprah show on Friday, she announced a mini-series produced by the Discovery Channel called Planet Earth. All eleven episodes of this television event were shown today in a marathon screening. Some of the clips she had shown peaked my interest and I turned it on today while I was working around the house. I was spellbound from the first moment. Spectacular! Breathtaking! Fascinating! This show is on the order of The March of the Penguins. Cameras zoom right into the middle of nature (without disturbing it) so we can see what humans rarely see. The photography was magnificent; the narration perfectly timed and scripted; the animals and scenery, miraculous.

I hope you got to see some of it. If not, set your Tivo to find future episodes. It’ll be well worth your time.

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Easter Egg Hunt

The kids had an Easter egg hunt yesterday, and Nathan was so cute. On Saturday night, Carrie had him plant some “lollipop” seeds. The next day, of course, lollipops had grown! He was so very excited. Then he started hunting for eggs. He ran around, picking up colored eggs, and said, “That Easter Bunny is so tricky!” After he had picked up several, he turned and told his mommy “I better let Lauren find some, too.” He kept checking her basket to make sure she had as many as he did. He seemed to instinctively know the Easter Bunny had hidden his eggs in harder places and all the ones laying out in the middle of the grass were for Sissy.
Here’re a few pictures that captured the moments.

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There’re a few more here.

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Lov-er-ley Birthday

Glenda and Jan took me to the Broadway Palm Dinner Theater to see My Fair Lady for my birthday. Every time I go there, I wonder why we don’t do it more often. It’s such a great evening. They serve a delicious buffet meal and deliver an excellent performance. I had a wonderful time with my two special friends.

Thank you to everyone who sent me happy birthday greetings. I can now legally order off the senior menu at Denny’s. Life is good. 😉

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We have reached a verdict

I was called for jury duty last week, and was selected to sit on a criminal case charging child molestation. Now, I am aware that many people claim to hate jury duty, but I have to tell you, I love it. I find the legal system and court process very interesting, and certain kinds of cases – fascinating! The one I was on certainly was. My new employer only covers three days of wages though, so I worked some early morning and weekend hours to make up my full paycheck. It was a tiring week.

About twenty five years ago, I served on a child molestation case in Tucson. The case was ground breaking in that the judge had allowed the testimony of the child to be video taped rather than making her come into the court room. The defense argued the defendant’s rights were violated, in that he was supposed to be allowed to face his “accuser”. The story hit the media and several jurors heard about it. The judge was forced to declare a mistrial. I was SO disappointed! After hearing opening statements and a day of testimony, I didn’t get to see the end of the story. (I later heard the man was acquitted. It was his ex-wife who had brought the charges against him during a custody battle for their little girl.)

This week’s case was really intriguing. And appalling. The little girl’s parents had an “open relationship”. They were swingers. The mother met a guy online, developed a relationship, and he came down from Washington state to move into their tiny two-bedroom apartment with them. He shared the bedroom with the wife while the father slept on the couch. The mother worked nights; the father worked days; the boyfriend didn’t work, so he took care of the two children during the day while the mother slept. After approximately five months of this arrangement, the mother discovered he had molested the daughter.

The little girl testified, and she was one of the sweetest and most precocious four year olds I’ve ever seen. Fortunately, she did not seem to be too traumatized by the event. I think she was young enough to not quite understand all that had happened to her.

The most interesting testimony of the case was the expert witness. She was a specialist in forensic interviewing and juvenile counseling. She described it as assisting children in identifying a situation. She was not familiar with this case at all. She was simply there to give us information that would help us determine the facts and validity of the testimony we were hearing.

I was the jury foreperson. We deliberated for six hours. In the end, it came down to whether we believed the child’s word or the defendant’s. We believed the child.

After the trial was over, we were allowed to meet with the attorneys and ask questions. It was then we discovered this was not the defendant’s first conviction. He was a registered sex offender from an offense when he was a juvenile, but that information was not admissible in court. Now the guy is going to prison for 10-25 years, and he’ll NEVER be allowed around children again.

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LIFE

Many of you may know that Carrie is working on opening a school/rehab center for special needs children next fall. A ton of work has gone into this already, and soon it will be a dream come true. It’s called Lauren’s Institute For Education, or LIFE.

While we were doing the fund raising events for Lauren’s transplant, several media outlets picked up the story and publicized it for us. Scott McGhee, a reporter at Channel 3 News, took a particular interest and gave us a lot of coverage.

Carrie called him this week to see if he would be interested in doing a follow up on Lauren two years post transplant, and also see what is happening with the new school. He was very eager for this opportunity, and met Carrie and three of her partners/staff at the site yesterday to film the segment. It aired last night, and is posted online today. He did a great job with the piece, as did Carrie and of course, Lauren! Check it out.

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